Baby Steps Really Work
"If you look at your entire
house as one unit of junk,
you'll never do anything
because the job is too overwhelming.
Take it one drawer at a
time."
Janet Luhrs
I know we all want instant results.
Me, too!
But the truth is, anything that really matters in life takes time.
For example, it takes four years (for most people) to complete a Bachelor's Degree.
It takes 9 months to have a baby...and then another 18+ YEARS or so before that baby is ready to be out on their own.
It takes 2-3 years just for many puppies to get out of their puppy phase!
But for some reason, when we want to make major changes in our lives, we think it should happen overnight.
That's why you see so many people buy a new gym membership at the
beginning of January, and by the end of the month they're already tired
of getting in shape.
Clearing out your clutter and organizing your space happen the same way.
Baby steps really work.
Clearing out one drawer really works.
Putting something away after you have taken it out works, too.
Why do baby steps work so well?
First of all, because you can usually convince yourself to
clear out ONE drawer. It doesn't seem all that overwhelming. And if it
does, make your baby step even smaller...do one section of that one
drawer.
Second, baby steps don't take all that much time. You might be
able to clear out that drawer in 15 minutes. No a huge investment of
time.
Third, baby steps don't create much mess. When you're clearing
out your clutter, it can get messy, so the less mess you create, the
less likely you are to stop, exhausted, in the middle.
Fourth, baby steps get you a feeling of instant
accomplishment. And that's super important when you're making changes
in your life...to acknowledge your wins. When you clear out that one
drawer, give yourself a pat on the back. You cleared out the drawer!
Fifth, baby steps allow you to integrate and explore what's
happening inside of you as you are clearing out your stuff. And that's
where the true impact of clearing your clutter happens...inside of you.
You start making different decisions. You start valuing your time and
your space and your energy differently. You start getting in touch with
what brings you joy right here, right now. And you start trusting that
it's OK to let go of the rest.
And when you mind starts wandering into the realm of "but look
at all that's left to do!" just remind yourself that baby step after
baby step is the only way to get there.
And you will.