Manifesting Change by
Changing Your Space
"You'll find that making a
change in your living space -
say, taking down one photograph and putting up another -
can have equally far-reaching effects,
sending you down a slightly different path
that hardly shows in the short term
but putting you in a very different place
at some point in the future."
"
Martha Beck
Steering by Starlight
When your home has areas that aren't working (everyone has
them...they're your clutter zones or 'touchy areas' or the spaces that
cause you the most stress or discomfort or embarrassment), I guarantee
you that you have corresponding areas in your life that aren't working
so well, either.
When you start changing your home, room by room, you automatically make corresponding changes in the rest of your life as well.
Your home is where you start your day.
It's where you end your day.
For many of you, it's also where you spend your day...you work from home, you write, you coach, you create.
And your home is much, much more than simply a place to live.
Your home reflects everything about you.
And right
now, your home is either supporting you fully, being a place that
inspires and motivates and nurtures you, or it is dragging you down,
one pile or irritation or frustration after another.
To start the process of changing your space:
Step 1. Start by noticing the hot spots in your home. Which areas do you dread, avoid, or feel anxiety about?
Step 2: Next, imagine a lovely place in your mind. Think of a
space, either indoor or outdoor, that makes your heart sing. It might
be a place you've visited, or seen in a magazine, or dreamed about.
Step 3: Come up with three words that describe the essence of that place, or how you feel when you imagine that place.
Step
4: Make one change in your hottest spot in your home that will bring in
all three of your new essence words. For example, you might bring in an
item to decorate that space that conveys all three essence words.
Step 5: Get rid of something in that same space that has been creating the anxious or unpleasant feeling for you.
And as you gently and lovingly make one small change in your
space, start to notice what starts shifting in other areas of your
life. It really helps to keep a notebook or journal...when you start
tracking the shifts, you'll start noticing that they are happening
everywhere. I call it the 'ripple effect' of creating space.
In the words of Martha Beck, "you'll find "butterfly effect" changes in the rest of your life, not just in your decor."
See? Easy as that.
Manifest change in your life by simply changing your space.