Psychology of Clutter
The
psychology of clutter is directly tied to
our beliefs about life, how we
feel about change and all that change in our life brings,
our own feeling of safety, and what
we think is possible for our own experiences.
Our
outer environment is
a reflection of what's going on inside us.
When we create environments that are cluttered, messy, stressful, and
overwhelming, (or even neat and tidy but no longer supportive of who we
are and who we want to be) we have a corresponding level of clutter,
overwhelm and stress inside as well – all of which
keep us from living
and being our best.
When we hold on to anything that is no longer serving us, in any way,
we are also
holding on
to the belief that we cannot trust that life
will provide exactly what we most need.
We become
constricted.
We start
losing energy.
We start
missing
opportunities.
Holding on is about the
fear
of what might happen when we let go.
According to the psychology of clutter, surrounding yourself with lots
of stuff, activities, people, and so on
can also be a nice, convenient way to keep yourself distracted from
noticing the bigger issues you may have been ignoring, or going after
what you really want (because that might really be scary)!
Clutter
can be a way of
hiding, whether it's hiding the dream that is
drowning, or the business that is stagnating, or the relationship that
is stuck.
All forms of clutter – physical clutter, time clutter, relationship
clutter, and mental, emotional, and spiritual clutter –
affect not only
our day-to-day lives, but also directly and dramatically
affect the
success of our businesses, our health and well-being, our
relationships, and our ability to be the kind of people we truly want
to be in the world.
The great news is that
when
you start handling either the external or
the internal clutter, you impact both.
For that reason, I've found that
it's often so much
easier
to start with the external stuff, since it's
tangible and visible, and
start
experiencing powerful results very
quickly.
Every
time we are willing to let go, to clear clutter, and to raise the
standard of our environment, the rest of our life steps up to the plate
as well and we
create
space for amazing opportunity, creativity, and
serendipity.
The psychology of clutter is straight-forward...when we hold on tightly
to anything based
on lack of trust or fear, we start experiencing lack and contriction in
all areas of life.
When we trust and are willing to
let
go of what no longer serves us, life
brings us exactly what we need.