Sue Rasmussen
and Business Results Affected by Clutter

One of my
mentors recently started calling me “the
space whisperer,”
and here's
why.
Ever since I was a little girl, I’ve been fascinated by the spaces
around us. I've been passionate about
the rooms we live in,
the things we put in them, and
their
impact on us.
As long as I can remember, I’ve always had an extremely strong
sensitivity to rooms, especially rooms in people’s homes and their
private offices – the personal spaces that reflect who they are.
And that sensitivity has always shown up to me in how I feel,
literally, when I’m in a room.
Some rooms made me feel happy,
some
made me feel creative, some made me
completely stressed out or uncomfortable, and others actually made me
feel jittery and anxious or upset.
And I could always tell intuitively if a piece of furniture just didn’t
feel right where it was sitting…if it needed to be moved 6 inches to
the left so the room would ‘feel better.’ I could literally feel the
room (and this may sound a little strange!) ‘
breathing easier’
when
things were placed in a certain way in the room.
I also got those same feelings with closets, drawers, and so on. If
things were a jumble, I could literally feel my insides getting jumbled
as well…my thoughts, my feelings, my ideas, and my energy.
And all my life,
I just
assumed that everybody could
feel these things. It didn’t even occur to me that I was
sensing things
that most people don’t. (In fact, I held on to this assumption until
very recently.)
As I was in my last year of high school and choosing what I wanted to
do for a career, I knew that I had this
love of how rooms look and how
they affect us. I thought about going into interior design
or
decorating, and was told by my guidance counselor that “there is no
money in that. Do something more practical.”
She didn’t even ask me any questions about it.
Now, growing up in the Midwest. I had a huge respect for authority,
especially someone who, I believed, was in a good position to offer me
valuable advice. So I believed her. I shut down completely. And I was
quietly devastated.
That moment,
I stopped
trusting myself. I stopped trusting what I
really wanted, and I stopped trusting what I believed.
I never even mentioned it to my family, I never questioned the validity
of what I had been told, and I spent the next 25 years doing work that
was ‘practical.’
So over the years, I made decisions that
seemed to make good sense,
at
least from the outside.
I went on to get a double major in French and Business Administration,
with an emphasis on International Business, and finished my
undergraduate work at l’Institut de Gestion de Rennes, which is an
international management school in France.
I worked in the corporate and professional arena until 1998, when the
next major level of my love of creating space of a different kind came
after divorcing my husband in 1998. We had gotten caught up in the
'more is better' mentality,
and had created lives that were fairly
complicated. I was working crazy hours every week, doing work I didn't
love, and surrounding myself with stuff to make up for it.
I decided that it was time to review my life, my activities, the people
I spent time with, and, of course, everything I owned and my living
environment.
The process of
simplifying, clearing out
years of clutter,
and making very conscious
decisions about what I wanted to keep in my
life and what I wanted to let go was
transformational in
every way for
me.
At that point I decided to change my profession, become
trained as a professional business coach, and focus on what I loved.
During that time I also hired several top notch specialists to help me
position myself as an expert, and again, mentioned to them that I had a
love and passion for
creating spaces that truly work for people,
simplifying, and clearing out clutter.
And again I was told, by people that I had hired to support me, that
what I wanted to do probably wasn't practical, and that I should focus
on what would better suit the market. (And my guess is that you have
heard something similar yourself at some point or another in your life
as well.)
So as a coach, I decided to work with small business owners to find
their own niche. I had no problem encouraging
other people to
follow their
hearts.
And because I truly am fascinated with marketing and business
development, I convinced myself that I was following my heart as well.
Over the years, as I worked with thousands of small business owners,
entrepreneurs, and professionals, teaching them how to
grow their
business, I became known as the niche marketing expert. I
loved helping
people define their specialty and their target audience, and then
helping them choose the marketing activities that would help them best
reach their audience.
I even wrote a book about
niche
marketing.
And I knew the tools worked. The marketing information and strategies I
was sharing were truly the best of the best. They were
simple, elegant,
and could be tailored to fit any business.
And here’s the thing:
I was shocked - absolutely
floored, in fact - when every entrepreneur’s
business
didn’t just take off like a rocket. And I didn’t know why.
So I started investigating. (And for those of you who know me, you know
that doing research is one of my true passions – I’m one of those kids
who loved doing research papers in high school - seriously).
And this is what I discovered.
These business owners - who were smart, motivated, creative, and cared
deeply about their businesses, their message, and their clients -
weren’t making the kind of progress they thought they should be making
because they were
often
distracted, whether consciously or
unconsciously, by something else in their life.
Here are some of the distractions I heard from my clients on a regular
basis:
- In many cases, their desk was piled high with stacks of
papers. They
couldn’t find anything, and were constantly saying things like “I’ll
work on my marketing as soon as I get my desk cleared off,” which
somehow never seemed
to happen, so their marketing never seemed to
happen.
- I often heard that they were upset because they kept trying
tool after tool,
attending seminar after seminar, and reading information products,
books, and the latest 'guaranteed' hot tips, and nothing seemed to be
changing. This is clutter at its finest, and affects most
entrepreurs
at some point or another.
- In some cases, they didn’t particularly like their home or
an aspect of where they lived,
but ‘had to stay
there’ for a variety of reasons. Or they didn’t like how their living
room looked, but didn’t
have time to create a room they loved.
- Or their garage was a huge mess, and they’d plan to clean
it
out weekend after weekend, only to come into work on
Monday upset that
they still couldn’t fit their car in the garage.
- Maybe they didn’t love their office, but they stayed there
because they were partnering with their brother-in-law and didn’t want
to rock the boat in their family. So they spent a good amount of their
time either being stressed
or trying to come up with work-arounds that
didn’t change a thing…and didn’t actually do anything to change the
direction of their business.
- They often felt behind, and stressed, and bad about the
progress they wanted to make but weren’t making. They put so much
pressure on themselves, and still weren’t moving forward.
Their
beliefs, their worry, and their constant beating themselves up were
literally blocking their ability to create the results they wanted, no
matter what actions they took.
- Or their schedule
was often jam-packed, with no breathing
room, and they found
themselves running from one thing to another. Their client sessions
constantly ran late, they themselves were often late, and each day felt
like one big race against time.
- They might say things like “when I get this next project
done, then I’ll have time to focus on growing my
business.” And again,
that day never came.
- Or they were in a partnership that was causing them a lot
of stress, and they couldn’t figure out what to do about it, and so
they did nothing except spent a lot of time being stressed about it,
talking about it, and looking for new solutions to make it work…when it
was clear that it wasn’t
going to work no matter what they did.
- Many had staff issues that were frustrating them,
and they didn’t know how to handle them, or they didn’t feel like they
could let the staff member go. And their reasoning either went “I’ll
just have
another conversation with my assistant, and I’m sure things will get
fixed” or “I don’t have
time to hire another assistant, so I’m going to
keep this one for awhile longer.” And nothing changed unfortunately.
And the list could go on and on.
I started recognizing that most of our coaching time was being spent on
everything
except
marketing.
As I looked more closely at what was going on, it became apparent to me
that
letting go
- of the staff or the clutter on the desk or the
activities that were crowding the schedule –
wasn’t such a simple thing
for most people.
They often didn’t know how to
let
go of the clutter in their lives.
They didn’t even know they
could
choose to let it go.
And they certainly didn’t realize that their clutter in all its various
forms – physical clutter, relationship clutter, time clutter, mental,
emotional, and spiritual clutter – was the reason they weren’t seeing
the results they wanted in their lives.
They thought their clutter was something they would handle if they had
time…it was low on their list of priorities.
And I knew that it was anything BUT a low priority –
clearing the
clutter would be, by far, the easiest
way for them to start seeing results in
their lives and in their business.
In fact, if they didn’t
clear the clutter,
no matter how hard they
worked and how many actions they took,
they would NOT see the results
they most wanted.
Clutter is completely
blocked energy. It is stagnant. It is derived
from the word ‘clot’ – and there is no movement in ‘clot.’
So I asked them to clear their desk, clean out their closet, handle the
conversation with their assistant or partner or husband or children,
create space in their schedule, and create an environment that they
loved – using quick, practical approaches.
I started telling them that when they started handling their clutter
(because I call all those things clutter), that’s when they’d start
making more money.
Or become more creative. Or get more clients. Or
whatever they wanted more of in their life.
And that’s exactly what happened.
When they started focusing
on handling
their clutter,
things started
shifting in often completely unexpected areas
of their business, as
well as their life.
They started noticing that their
creativity
went through the roof,
without any effort on their part. New clients started showing up, more
and more easily, often from out of the blue.
And they were happier, more relaxed, and the
stress started going away.
Their personal relationships started getting better.
They started making decisions based on “
how do I feel?”
instead of
“what do I think?” and found it was so much easier.
And for me, the connection between what I had loved all of my
life - creating environments that really work, including simplifying
and
clearing out the
clutter that is no longer serving you – and
creating powerful results in business and in life was coming full
circle.
For more info, check out my
Fast
Facts.