Tips to Declutter:
Clearing Clutter Takes Time
One of my
favorite tips
to declutter doesn't actually sound like a tip
at all, but it absolutely IS!
"Ain't about how fast I
get there.
Ain't about what's waiting on the other side.
It's the climb."
Miley Cyrus
When
you are
doing
anything worthwhile in your life, such as creating a
successful business, getting (and staying!) in shape, raising healthy,
happy kids, or creating space by learning tips to declutter,
it's not
about a
single event.
In fact, in the words of Miley Cyrus, it's about the climb.
You've heard it before...
life
is about the journey.
Have you asked yourself what that truly means?
Yes, it's fabulous to
accomplish what we want. But it's
just
as fabulous to fully enjoy and
savor each moment along the way.
Clearing out clutter is
not a project.
It is
not a one-time
task.
Sooooo many people, when they start learning tips to declutter, have
extremely high expectations of themselves.
"I should be able to clear everything out this weekend!"
"Why is there still stuff to DO?"
"I should be making visible progress every single day."
"You mean there's still MORE?!?"
"I should just buckle down and finish all of this!"
With expectations like that, whatever you get done will likely never
feel like enough.
You'll probably find that you have trouble feeling
good about the progress you have made.
And you'll actually add stress to your life,
simply by having
expectations of yourself that you can never meet.
First of all, you're never "done" clearing clutter and creating space
in your life, just like you're never "done" brushing your teeth. You're
still going to brush your teeth tomorrow, and the next day, and the day
after that, right?
You don't get all bent out of shape about the fact
that you'll need to brush your teeth again tomorrow, too, do you? Or
get completely overwhelmed by the thousands of times you'll be brushing
your teeth in the next 20, 30, or 40 years, right?
I would imagine you simply
brush your teeth, enjoy the feeling of having clean teeth and fresh
breath in that moment, and go about your day.
Creating space in your life is the same thing.
As you gently clear out the layers of your past, the layers of what no
longer serves you, the layers of what is taking up so much room in your
life, and the layers of what drains your energy, just know that the
process will continue.
You will change and grow.
What inspires and energizes you today will
change, either next week or next month or next year...creating more to
let go.
And you'll still be taking care of your home, your papers, your
office, your closet, and everywhere else in your environment tomorrow,
and the next day, and the day after that, too.
And will clearing out clutter get easier? Will tips to declutter become
more a part of your life? Will letting go get easier?
YES!
Will you start seeing more and more results?
Will
creating space
become
part of your daily routine?
Absolutely!
It's important to remember that, in addition to the act of
clearing out
the stuff you no longer want, clearing clutter is also
about
creating
new habits that support you in living the life YOU want to
live.
It's
about creating time and space in your life so you can
focus on what you
most love today, so that you can fully live TODAY.
What if you focused
on the open space you are creating today, and truly enjoyed it?
What
if you focus on simple tips to declutter, rather than overwhelming
yourself with a complicated approach to organize your stuff?
And
what if you
relished in
the new habits you are creating, step by step,
to create a life of ease and being fully present?
What if you
enjoyed the
journey?